PROUD GRAND PARENTS

This blog is dedicated to our grand child  Dron

The experience of being a grandparent is unique for everyone.  Each person brings their unique self to the experience of grand parenting.

Grand parents are the family’s greatest treasure, the founder of loving, keepers of traditions that linger on in our cherished memory. Their special love and the caring is the happiness of our lives. Grandparents keep a family well being close to their hearts.

After becoming grand parents the meaning of parenthood changes and more softness comes within for the grandchild as compared to your own children.

Grand parenting style includes culture, ethnicity, gender, tradition, family structure and a personal history. The bond between both these generations is of pure love and affection On the part of a grandparent it also requires a lot of patience, courage and dedication to rear a second family.

The grand parents are the greatest story tellers, share the stories of the past, their stories may be about the relatives, important events, family tradition, or about their own childhood or the grand child’s parent childhood stories. As the stories of the family are passed on, the grand child will gain a positive image and their place with in the family. Grand parents they serves as an encouragement and support to the family. Grand mentor by teaching and Sharing their skills and talents providing an advice and listening to their grand children. As a role model grand parents provide grand children with example of being a good children and the family loyalty.

Many grand parents thrill at the opportunity to be a playmate with their grand children.  They speak with enthusiasm of time spent, on reading story books, playing games, sharing mutual interests with their grand children. Expressing   love, affection and encouragement words is easy for most of the People.

So grand parents should begin to form a close & loving relation right from the start, the hugs and kisses are appreciable and accepted by children of all ages.

Grand children brings the love, energy, optimism, laughter, activity, youthfulness and purpose to lives of grand parents; at the same  time  grand  parents  provide  them  maturity, knowledge, stability and unconditional love to  the lives of their  grand  children.

When kids are raised in the company of grand parents, they feel comfortable to show their love and learn to express their feelings.

Modern   kids have lot on their plates and are often pulled in many directions at once, but grand parents can guide a lot for the development of a strong character in their grand children. Children have different type of bond with their grand parents than they do with their parents.

They feel comfortable to seek advice with the grand parent. Smart grand parent will make an effort to trusting bond with their kids and make it clear they are available to offer a kind ear and strong shoulders whenever their grand children need them.

Grand parents must be sure and take cautions, when giving advice however since it is never acceptable to go against the wishes of children’s parents.

Think of the environment of your own grand parents, the positive or negative children take time to develop their relationship with their grand parents.

MAMA

Perfect love sometimes does not come, until the arrival of first grand child.
  J

ETIQUETTE ON DINNING

Good table manners are essential as they ensure that both the guests as well as the hosts are comfortable at the table. Displaying good table manners shows a respect for your fellow dinners.

Setting up of a Menu prior to the dinner, taking into consideration the likes & dislikes of the Guests, is essential for the hosts to consider at the planning stage.

Basic rules:

Ø  Sit up straight and keep your elbows off the table, however, it is permissible to rest your wrist on the edge, between the courses.

Ø  As soon as you are seated, place your dinner napkin on your lap. At the end of the meal, place your soiled napkin next to your plate neatly.

Ø  Meals that are served on the platter should be passed on from the right hand side.

Ø  Never eat with your mouth open or try to talk with the food in your mouth.

Ø  Take a small bite so that you can swallow your food easily and maintain a pleasant dinner conversation.

Ø  If the soup is served, dip your spoon into the bowl and then eat it, don’t slurp loudly! 

Ø  If the bread is served as a loaf, tear it with hands, into a small size.

Ø  When eating a salad, be sure to cut the lettuce and other vegetables into a comfortable bite size serving.
Ø  Very few food items should be eaten by with your fingers, e.g.: Indian breads. (If you have doubts, follow the lead or the guests.)

Ø  Never take food from your neighbor’s plate.

Ø  Don’t reach over someone’s plate for something; ask for the item to be passed.

Ø  Never lick or put your knife into your mouth.

Ø  Always say thank you when you are served something, it shows appreciation.

Ø  When you have finished eating, and let others know that you have by placing the knife and fork together with the pongs on the fork facing upwards on your plate.
Ø  It is considered polite to take along a small gift to your host: Flowers, chocolates or Champaign are always appreciated.

Setting up of Dinner Table:

For a proper table setting, the cutlery should be placed around the table.

Bread butter with butter knife (top left of dinner plate).

      Water glass, Wine glass, Liquor glass (top right of dinner plate).

      Both the forks are to be placed left of the plate (Salad fork and dinner fork).

      The dinner knife is placed on the right side.

      Dinner plate with soup bowl on it.

      Dessert spoon  on the top side of the plate. 

      Spoons should be placed to the right side of the knife.

Napkin placement depends on your preference and there are many folding       variations. Fold napkin and set to the left of the fork or place it on the plate.

For setting of a dinner table, expensive tableware is not need. Proper arrangements and creativity is the key to a pretty table setting.

v  Determine how many people will be attending.

v  Cover the table with a table cloth and set placemats in front of each plate. 

v  Each piece of the dinner plate should be placed one or two inches at the bottom of table edge.

v  Place glassware at each place setting depending on the beverages you will be serving

v  Place salt and pepper within the reach of several guests

v  Set flowers on the centre of the table and candles if desired.

“A guest never forgets the host who had treated him kindly.”

Mama 

COOL DOWN YOUR BODY FOR SUMMER

It is summer again and it’s time for cotton clothes, cool drinks and chilled food to make an appearance everywhere. You can reduce the effects of the heat by including in your diet, plenty of greens, leafy vegetables, fruits, sprouts, fresh fruit juice. A tall glass of butter milk or chilled lassi or fresh lemon juice is ideal.

 Melons can be very refreshing in the hot summer months and can make a great summer diet. 

Make a banana, musk melon milk shake and enjoy them.

Eat cucumber, spinach, mint, lettuce, cabbage, tomatoes and other fresh vegetables regularly -these have plenty of water.

Avoid foods that increase your thirst and weight. Excessive body weight can be more uncomfortable in summer, try to avoid high fat foods fried food, meat and junk food.

Have the herbal tea with mint leaves added to it, to keep cool in summer.

The juice of dry grapes (soaked overnight), tossed with cucumber must be taken along with the water.

Milk is cooling and it supplies nutrients to your skin and helps to keep out from drying. Drink a cup of milk everyday.

Tomatoes and bell peppers of all colors deliver large amounts of vitamins A and C. A medium tomato, for example, is low in carbohydrates and has only has 35 calories but gives you 40% of the vitamin C and 20% of the vitamin A you need for the day.

Tomatoes have other benefits, too. "Consuming a diet rich in tomatoes has been shown to decrease the risk of prostate and other digestive tract cancer.

Berries in general are convenient to eat, tasty, and easily eaten by themselves or mixed with yogurt for smoothies.

Yogurt can even help you slim down, three servings of dairy a day can help promote weight loss.

Flavored, plain, or low fat, you can eat yogurt as a snack or as the protein source at a meal. Yogurts make a great dip for fruits and vegetables and a delicious dessert topping instead of ice cream.

 For the best of smart and tasty eating, combine low-fat yogurt and fresh berries for a summer smoothie.

Keep your skin nourished with an herbal moisturizer, look for ayurvedic based skin friendly herbs such as sandalwood, brahmi, turmeric, Aloe-Vera and amla. (Gooseberry).

Refreshing chilled home made drinks to go with hot summer:

·         Raw mango juice (panna)

Make the raw mango juice by first boiling the mango and then mixing the pulp,

water and adding a pinch of salt, jaggery and sprinkle roasted and powdered  

Cumin seed.

·         Thandai-

1 lt. milk, 2-cups of water,  sugar to taste,  aniseed ½ tsp,   8-10 almonds  10 Pepper corns, few  strands of saffron, 1/2 tsp cardamom powder 1/2 tsp. poppy seeds 1tbs. water melon seeds & 1/4 cup fresh rose petals.

Method: Soak aniseed, water melon seed, rose petals, almond, poppy seed in 2 cups of water. Boil the milk and let it cool. Make a smooth paste of the soaked ingredients by grinding them in water. Pour the remaining water in this paste and strain through a strainer or muslin cloth.

Add sugar, pepper corns (slightly broken), powdered cardamom, few strands of saffron soaked ½ cup milk.  Now mix it with the remaining milk and keep it in the fridge for sometime, before the serving.

Tips for dressing:

Always go for cotton wears, this extra special effort will help you to be more comfortable and gives a stylish look. A pair of white shorts, with bright colored kurtis that spell c-o-o-l.   

You can always wear a soft blazer over a flowery printed frock for a more comfortable look. A pair of shorts, loose pants, mix in a bold pattern, will set for the fashion game.  A great printed dress, with a legging, is excellent for cooler evenings.

A cute polka dotted tops, striped pocketed shorts for summer and this will help you to standout. These outfits will give you a feel of freshness too.

Go for plain softer shades.  However, orange is the more stylish color and a cooler shade for the evening wear.

JEWELERY:

Costume jewelry is best during summer, as it is the simplest way to dress up with the basic outfit. Stock up on colorful pieces that can be used to dress up with your basic clothes.

SHOES:

A great pair of high heels can be worn with dark denim, a dress or a skirt or shorts to add instant glamour.

Buy a new polish for your toes, toenails can be painted much bolder & cooler than you usually put on your finger nails.

Few tips for summer:

Splash water on your skin, use a body scrub and hit the shower. It is very important to exfoliate your skin, once a week of skin care, will give year-round beautiful skin.

Pat & dry your skin instead of rubbing with towel.

Use cleanser, then the toner and a rub a piece of ice on your face. It helps close the pores and tightens the skin.

At least once a week, treat yourself to a fruit or vegetable face mask, appropriate to your skin type.

Avoid caffeine and hard drinks. Drink lots of water, to avoid dehydration due to sweating.

Keep your bedroom dark, cool and comfortable and 

sleep on cotton or linen sheets.

HAIR CARE:

 Exposure to sun can be just as damaging, like super hot blow dry of hair. When you find yourself out in the sun the beach or the pool-side, reach for a hat to cover your delicate strands. Take care of your hair during summer.

Drink plenty of fluids during summer months, as hair needs more moisture. Limit the use of hair chemicals, such as hair color & bleach, as much as possible. Hair needs to be treated more gently during the summer. Switching to a more gentle shampoo is essential.

FACE PACK

Blend equal quantities of sandalwood powder, rose petal powder, oats powder and mix with milk. Apply on your face and leave it for half an hour, before wash.

For dry skin, mixed with ½ tsp. honey and for oily skin -1/2 tsp. lime juice should be added.

Apply the pulp of any fruit on the face. These fresh fruit pack, is good for removal of dead cells and stimulates the blood circulation. This helps to give a glow to your skin and removes the sun tan.

Applying yogurt on your face as well as your arms and legs, will soften the skin, as it works as a cooling agent.

Dab fresh milk on your face with cotton balls, this works wonder for your sun burns.

Sandal wood Pack: 

Prepare chandan (sandal wood) paste by adding some rosewater. Apply this paste on your face. Keep it overnight and then wash it off with cold water the next day. It has a cooling effect.

Multani Mud Pack

Take a spoonful of finely ground multani mud, a spoonful of rose water or cleansing-milk and prepare a thick paste. Apply a thick coat all over the face. Leave it on for fifteen minutes and then wash it off with tap water.

Mint Pack: 

Apply a paste of freshly ground green mint all over the face. Leave it on for fifteen minutes and then wash it off. This pack will absorb the internal heat of the skin.

Cucumber Pack:

Mix together some cucumber juice or ground cucumber with milk and apply on face. Cucumber is a natural astrigent that tightens the pores of the skin.Wash it off after 15minutes.

MAMA

I'm trying to read a book on how to relax, but I keep 

falling asleep:)

Reiki is my passion & basic need

Reiki is a natural, simple, safe and an effective healing system by using universal energy. The uses of Reiki are endless; not only to help oneself but also it has the ability to heal others. Some of the other benefits are stress reduction, relaxation, improves and maintains health, strengthens the immune system; it aids meditation and positive thinking. Reiki also works on plants and animals too.

To me Reiki is a gift I received in 2001. I don’t know how I might have ended without it, but ever since then many things have changed in my life. The practice of Reiki has made my living more meaningful. I feel the energy flow through my hands and I also sense the intensity depending on the situation.

Reiki also works for the dead or departed souls. Reiki is a wonderful way to discover many things to reach higher levels. The more you practice the more energy flows though your hands.

Respect the gift once you have been attuned by a Reiki master. If you feel the energy working within you and have benefited from it; pass it on as a gift to others. More the people working on the healing energy a better place will this society be. Reiki not only heals but also bonds with people.  Reiki is very simple and easy to learn. Reiki is not a religion.

Reiki is increasingly offered in hospital and private practice settings, applied to a variety of illnesses and conditions. Those who receive such treatments report relief of symptoms from numerous health challenges, including mental health issues. Research shows that reiki primarily helps in the reduction of stress,anxiety and Depression,  as well as relief of chronic pain —Reili also offer you a Distant healing from the Reiki Masters to healer who wish to strengthen their abilities and confidence.

BENEFITS

Reiki can enhance every area of your life. Self-healing on a daily basis helps one to be vibrant physically and mentally. Some other benefits are as follows:

·         Cures headaches especially acute migraines

·         Creates deep relaxation and releases stress.

·         Aids better sleep

·         Reduces blood pressure

·         Removes fear of exams/interviews

·         Helps the body to recover from drug therapy after surgery and chemotherapy.

·         Increases the vitality and postpones the ageing process

·         Cures injuries and chronic problems like asthma.

·         Removes energy blockages at homes/work places.

·         supports pregnancy and painless childbirth

I personally recommend all to learn Reiki. As it has benefited me and I want you to experience the same.

Feel more connected within and in tune with others - PEACE YO ALL! 

MAMA