Thursday, March 1, 2012

Friendship is a Blessing!

It is by chance we met . . .by choice we became friends.


Friendship “is a feeling of affection between two like minded persons. 

Friendship should be supportive throughout one’s life. Some people make friends at an early age and continue their friendship forever. Having a best friend is a huge bonus in life, the bond between the best friends is so special and so important to all of us.

A True Friendships is-

Respect one another and show this by being openly and mutually supportive.

Relationship based on  equal give and take relationship.

Based on trust, if you are breaking a friend’s trust, the friendship may be hard to salvage.

Be there through thick and thin as long as that is how you feel as a true friend.

If your friend is going through a crisis tell your friend that "Whatever you decide or need, I am there for you." If the need is, to talk stay honest, but upbeat and positive.



Enjoyment of each others company...

The ability to be oneself,express one's feeling,and make mistakes without fear of judgement.

Real friends inspire and push each other rather than drag each other down.

Honesty,perhaps in situation where it may be difficult to others to speak. 


                        Breaking a friendship    

    Is difficult thing to do, make sure that your friend understands why you are ending it? Friends they always know all the inner details of your life it is like picking up a book and knowing exactly where you left it off.

When your friendship is little shaky, don’t say that you are busy
this is something common. Try to get in touch, When it comes to your friend some way to keep your friendship is inviting your for a cup of coffee is a great idea or sending an e-mail is a great communication tool.

 When breaking up with your friend, see the root cause behind you two. May be the lack of support during your rough time.
Negative reactions for your good news may be disappointed you. Gossiping from your behind is may be the few reasons.

It takes two to start and maintain relationship but only one to end it. Dwell on the positive memory if things are out of control, it’s the time you to say “Goodbye”.

If your friendship does end, remain yourself -that not every friendship lasts forever including yours it does not mean that you are incapable of friendship or one or both of you did something wrong and try to analyze your friendship.

 Cherish your memories and allow yourself to move on with others as you move on.

MAMA
Friendship is like a delicate as a glass, once broken it cannot be fixed.








3 comments:

  1. Nandinii S Nair I FELT...THIS ARTICLE COULD HV BEEN MORE ELABORATE...THIS TOPIC IS V.CLOSE 2 MY HEART....AS ""FRIENDSHIP"" IS V.PRECIOUS.AS THEY SAY""FRAGILE....HANDLE WITH CARE"",SO ALSO FRIENDSHIP SHOULD B NURTURED WITH LOVE,CARE & ATTENTION.
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  2. Reena Pinto Am very proud of Usha who writes this great blog and so young at heart and looks as stunning as she looked in college
    3 March

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  3. You are doing a Fan-tabu-lous job.. We are proud of you
    30 January at 16:26 · Unlike · asma

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